Can we watch a 60-second “day in the life” of someone else cleaning their kitchen…while our own life is happening ten feet away from us?
Why does “just one second” turn into a 60 minute rabbit hole?
Why do we sit next to our partner at night, both scrolling, because it feels easier than being fully present with eachother?
WE’RE exhausted.
OUR brains just need somewhere to go where nothing is required of us.
WIRED gives you a more effective & longer lasting way to get that relief.
THE COMMON NARRATIVE IS THAT "WE ARE ADDICTED TO OUR PHONES,"
It's actually not your fault.
The algorithm is designed to do exactly what it's doing.....keeping you reactive, stimulated, & unsatisfied.
You have to decide that you aren't going to let it do that anymore.
Our bodies are never exiting low-grade survival mode.
HOT TAKE: a mom who is overstimulated, emotionally fried, & reaching for her phone every 4 minutes is a mom who isn't fully available to herself, her kids, or anything she's trying to build. Our attention isn't a small thing, it's everything, & when it's scattered across seventeen tabs & a TikTok algorithm, so are we.
You check your phone before your feet hit the floor.
By 8:13am the most present you'll be all day might already be behind you.
By 5:47pm you're snapping at the kids for being loud in a house where kids are supposed to be loud.
By 9:52pm you're lying in bed with the phone on your chest telling yourself five more minutes for the fourth time in a row.
So you scroll, Because it’s the only place your brain feels like it can sit down & take a breather...
& when you’re carrying everything for everyone all day?
That feeling is hard to give up.
My biggest fear as a mom is that my kid is going to end up in therapy one day healing from my 6pm burnout & I spent years thinking it was fine.
WIRED is not a digital detox, it’s a 4-week nervous system rebuild giving your brain something it's never had, a reason to stop reaching.
To teach your body & brain how to DECOMPRESS.
So you can land in your kitchen as the present mom you want to be.
SO YOU CAN CLOSE YOUR EYES AT NIGHT knowing your not the thing your kid is venting about in their 30s.
Just look at the evidence from the last round. (Lower score = lower distraction)
WIRED IS FOR THE MOM WHO IS TIRED OF NEVER HAVING A PLACE FOR HER BRAIN TO REST & HER KIDS PAYING THE PRICE FOR IT
What that actually means?
It’s like giving your kid soda & candy & having 5 of their friends over & expecting the house to be quiet.....
AFTER WIRED →
a quiet movie night on the couch & you & your husband don't pick up your phone once.
(Kind of like what Kayla from the last round said)
No more sitting next to your partner in silence, both of you scrolling....
No more tensing up when your family calls out your name....
No more feeling overwhelmed by the life you worked so hard to create for yourself...
You feel like the mom you always pictured yourself being before the scroll got in the way.
WIRED gives your brain actual relief so it stops chasing it on a screen.
And that itch, the one that sends your hand to your phone before you've even decided to pick it up??
IT STOPS BEING THE THING THAT DRIVES YOU.
You can keep your phone, & the apps, you just stop being consumed by them.
Your life doesn’t change, you do.
Work doesn’t feel like an attack.
Motherhood doesn’t feel like sensory overload.
Rest doesn’t feel illegal.
You’re still superwoman, you’re just not drowning anymore.
This is not content or a boring course to consume (or ghost after day 4), it’s a 5-week hands-on rebuild of the impulses driving our behaviors.
60 Brain games
Your grandma does crossword puzzles to keep her brain sharp.
Now imagine that, but built for a mom who hasn't slept properly since 2021, is overstimulated before 9am, & has approximately three minutes before someone needs something.
Customized to you based on your assessment. That's what these are.
Impulse Reactivity Score
(Proprietary Assessment)
You start by finding out where your nervous system actually is. The professional evaluation measures how automatic your behavior has become, how loud your brain runs, where your focus falls apart, & how your body responds to silence.
You get your nervous system personality type and a plan built specifically around your result.
24/7 AUTOPILOT OVERRIDES
The witching hour, the school pickup, the 9pm spiral. Right when your nervous system is most likely to check out, an autopilot interrupt lands on your phone. Not a guilt trip, or a screen time warning.
A real pattern break in the exact second before the overstimulation wins.
Two Live Labs
These aren't coaching calls where someone talks at you for an hour. They're live labs, small, real, & more honest than most things you'll experience in a group setting.
Women who've been through them describe feeling emotional, connected, & less alone in a way they didn't expect. That vulnerability you can feel through a screen? That's what makes these different.
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I DON'T WANT TO GIVE UP MY PHONE OR SOCIAL MEDIA:
You don't have to give it up. We don't heal complicated relationships by eliminating things, we learned that with food. You'll still use your phone. You'll still scroll. You just won't need it to survive the day.
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MY LIFE IS TOO BUSY FOR THIS:
The average mom scrolls 2-4 hours a day. That's 100 hours a month. Almost 2 weeks. The same mom who swears she has no time. Not a judgment. Just math. WIRED gives back what's already been taken, & it only takes 3-5 minuts per day.
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BUT WHY WOULD WE DO THIS ON OUR PHONES?
Even if your phone could only make calls you'd still have the nervous system that needs to reach for something every time life gets loud. The phone didn't create the urge. It just became the most convenient place to put it. That's why locking it in a drawer was never going to work. WIRED works on what the drawer can't touch.
What people are saying
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for feedback from Katy, a working mom in WIRED
Let’s say you scroll 5 hours a day.
That’s...
76 DAYS OF HALF-PRESENCE, FRACTURED ATTENTION, & TONS OF MENTAL NOISE.
(not to mention the time spent worried & guility about how much presence you're losing with your kids)
Here’s what you’re giving your brain:
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60 BRAIN BUILDING MINI LABS $999
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NERVOUS SYSTEM PERSONALITY ASSESSMENT $297
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24/7 AUTOPILOT INTERRUPTORS
(ON-DEMAND PATTERN BREAKS) $497 -
2 LIVE RECALIBRATION LABS $899
Total Value: $2692
I know it can be hard to imagine what autopilot interruptors are like so let me have my clients explain it for you:
PRESALE $488
Free with WIRED: Control Your Cravings bundle for every other thing your nervous system reaches for when life gets loud. 9 other cravings, 8 minutes each. (Valued at $222)
You're not paying for content you don't have the bandwidth to consume. You're investing in actual relief.
You get your presence back.
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IT'S FOR THE MOM WHO:
- is physically in the kitchen but mentally in an email….
- has snapped at her kid after reading one too many tragic stories…..
- lies in bed next to her partner, both scrolling, neither connecting….
- stays up for “me time” that doesn’t actually restore her…..
- feels like she’s watching her own life instead of fully in it….
It’s for the woman who wants her full attention back so she can be the present mother, partner, & friend she knows herself to be when when her attention isn’t being pulled in 47 directions.
This Is Bigger Than Your Phone...
This is about attention, & it’s one of the most valuable assets we have. It creates what we build, how we parent, how we lead, how we love, how we regulate, & the legacy we leave behind. When our attention is fractured, our life fragments with it. If our nervous system is constantly bracing, our children feel it. When we are emotionally numb, our joy shrinks too.
I don’t want you to be “better.”
I want you to be settled.
Your kids are learning what their screen time is like by watching yours. If you’re distracted, they will be too. This is where that stops.
Decide. Your attention is not for sale anymore, your nervous system is not an algorithm’s playground, & your presence is not a billion dollar experiment. You worked too hard for this life to experience it through a haze. Keep the apps & the phone, but let’s burn the unconscious dependency.